What ever happened to a separation of church and state?
Marriage is a culturally and socially relative term. What right does a government have to enforce it's definition and limitation of marriage on a nation of people with diverse cultural and social backgrounds? Government should only be concerned with government matters such as taxation, health insurance, and other relevant matters and leave the interpretation of what marriage means to the people. I believe that we would be much better off if our government would take a more European stance on people's rights to form unions. By that, I mean our government should recognize the right of consenting adults (regardless of sexual orientation) to form civil unions and be privy to the rights of such (like healthcare benefits, hospital visitation, tax breaks, etc). Conducting a 'marriage ceremony' is then the right of the citizens to do as they please without any interference from the government.
The 'Sanctity of Marriage'
sanc·ti·ty (sngkt-t)
n. pl. sanc·ti·ties
1. Holiness of life or disposition; saintliness.
2. The quality or condition of being considered sacred; inviolability.
3. Something considered sacred.
I will never understand how a LGBT couple marrying has any effect on the sanctity of someone else's marriage. In my opinion, the sacred or holy quality of YOUR marriage is upheld by YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE ONLY and the actions of anyone else cannot alter the condition of your own marriage. Besides that, what is sacred or holy is subjective and what right does one person have to force their views of marriage onto another?
The Lies and Deception
Those who support Proposition 8 claim that when LGBT couples marry it degrades the meaning of the word marriage. There are those who say that they do not oppose LGBT couples marrying, they just want them to call it a different name. I think that is about as silly of an argument as any. Again, I believe the government should recognize people's union as a reguliously neutral concept and then each couple is within their own rights to perform whatever ceremony they want to celebrate their union. If they want to call it a marriage, then how does that harm you? If they want to call it a big gay boat ride, then what does that matter to you? Who cares what you call it. Your own beliefs and values are upheld by you and your actions, not by what someone else decides to do with their own life.
There were also those who sent out TV ads saying that if same-sex marriage was legal then children in school would have to be taught about same-sex marriage. This was a clear attempt to scare people into voting for Proposition 8 but it also is a rediculous argument. I think half the problem with our schools is we are too busy trying to teach our children cultural superiority that we forget to teach them that there are a variety of cultures in the world and even in our own country. Moreover, why should schools be teaching marriage anyway other than to inform children that a variety of cultures view marriage in different ways? I, for one, hope we can stop using the schools and our homes to pass on bigoted ideas to our children and intead teach our children to be intelligent, tolerant, and critically thinking people. Then, maybe the next generation will move further to protecting the equality that our courts whittled away today with the decision to uphold Proposition 8.
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